Learn to ConnectÂ
Within a Community of others
Social confidence in less than 30 min per week
Less Anxiety
More AnticipationÂ
- Has your ability to connect been "off" since Covid? Â
- Professionally, are your social skills holding you back?Â
- Do you feel alone in even in a crowd of people?
- Do social situations stress you out or drain you?
- Do you struggle to read social cues and body language?
Conversational Community is here to serve you.Â
"You can't teach people skills"Â
Non-sense. It's a limiting belief held by millions and it's simply not true.
Inside our  Conversational Community, we'll help you grow your social confidence through:
Courses
- Conversations: More, Better and Less Awkward. Previously $97, now only available through this community. You'llÂ
- Reasons People Are Avoiding YouÂ
- More on the way
Community
- Discussion threads are pinned to each module of every course to drive knowledge deeper through conversation
- Â Best practices gathered up into threads in a social media like format (minus the trolls)
- A place to laugh at the absurdity of awkward moments
- People to float your questions with who actually care
- DM other members. Find your people!
Calls:
- Conversation Practice: Each week we gather together on zoom to have bite sized conversations that build our confidence (in ourselves and in humanity!)
- Live ADHD Coach Calls Monthly - Our good friend Jessica Heimsoth, professional ADHD coach joins us monthly to host a live Q&A call with the members of the community.
- Live "Coffee With Cole" sessions - No agenda, no script. You can ask about how to deal with your mother in law or you can ask about his neuro-spicy family or even about his Giant Schnauzer - Abe.
- More experts joining soon
Imagine a place to mess up with no consequences.
Imagine meeting people completely different from you who are on the same journey.
What if there was a place to rekindle that childlike curiosity and give it language and tools to be expressed in ways that lead to connection
That's what we're building together!
Why learn in an online community: Because the risk to your existing social standing is zero. An online community affords you a place to try, fail, ask, learn, and prepare in a safe place.
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MY STORY:
Hi, I'm awkward Cole. When it comes to social faux pas: You name it… I’ve done it.Â
Here's how it went for me (tell me if this resonates with you): I started into life focusing on knowledge and competency (get good at something and people will celebrate you right?). Oh how your 20's lie to you!Â
And after climbing the ladder of competency, I started to experience some pretty confusing things
- People getting promoted who were less competent than me
- Finding out I was coming off differently than I intended
- Launching into meetings or conversations only to find out my instincts were wrong about what to say/do.
It's just confusion at first: "What's going on here?"
And then when I couldn't find the answers I needed from books, colleagues or friends it became something stronger: anger.
Why on earth are there implicit social rules with remarkably explicit consequences?
And I let that anger stick around too longer and turned into bitterness.
That bitterness just created more friction at work and in my relationships and lead to worst part:Â lonliness.
Listen:Â I don't care about conversational tools or neat social hacks. I can about you being connected to others because no matter who you are: you are worthy of connection and you are made for connection.Â
And if you've been looking for a place to develop the skills you need.....read on. Or join us now.Â
I WANT TO INVITE YOU TO JOIN THE
Conversational Community
Courses, Community, and Conversational Practice
Courses
Including Cole's "Conversations" course, previously sold for $97. More content added every month
Community
Don't learn alone! Share wins, struggles and learnings with a community of people growing together
Calls
Weekly Live zoom calls to practice conversations. Live coaching calls. And more!
“I always kinda felt like… people don’t quite get me and I don’t quite get people. Cole’s content has been instrumental in changing that. I can feel my confidence growing. I am looking forward to conversations, not dreading them. At almost 50, I feel like my life is just beginning and I owe a lot of that to this course.”
“I was really excited to start the course to see if I could improve as a conversationalist and stop beating myself up after every interaction. I’m happy to say that I learned a ton of tools that I have been implementing in my everyday life, from small talk to a whole guide on the right kind of questions to ask. I had an epiphany during each lesson, even the ones that I thought didn’t apply to me. So if you are looking to stop dreading every social interaction because you put your foot in your mouth and you want to make real changes, check this course out. You won’t regret it.”
-Lori Ehmke
“I yearned for more meaningful conversation and deeper connections. I ended up taking Cole’s Conversations Course and it was eye opening as to how many small details I was failing to consider, from my facial expressions and body language to how to reframe questions that keep the conversation going. When I struck up a conversation with a stranger at a restaurant recently, I was so pleasantly surprised with how smoothly our conversation flowed. I no longer find myself relying on the weather to open conversations. I’m far more confident in my ability to start and carry conversations as well as to know when and how to end one.”
If I had to rate the enjoyment I get from talking to people on a scale of 1 to 10, i’d say before applying the things in the course it was maybe a 6, but now I would say it’s a 9! Truly, would recommend it to anybody.
Purchased Separately
Coaching: $150/hr
Online Cohort: $350
